Sometimes we fight, ho and hum over the obstacles that come up (or those that we see in the distance coming our way) as we are heading towards our goals/dreams/the life we want.
...how about embracing the obstacle? Accept the fact that everything that you come across has been intentionally placed there in order for you to be successful in life, some of the "obstacles" that you are aware of placing and others placed subconsciously.
When things come across your awareness and it is looked upon as just something that happens on the way to being happy, the words of "problems", "obstacles", and "frustrations" will take upon a different meaning (and hopefully a more neutral/positive one).